Apently the dude next to me is a football stud.  He has felt the highest of highs and lowest of lows already in his young life.  From winning the big games to breaking bones.  He has had a broken hand while playing football.  His team has won the Conference.  He has made All Conference, second team district.  He has felt the gorly of winning and the defeat of a broken body.  It takes strenth and focus to be that competive.